One thing that some people engage in is what I call “signal crossing” and if you don’t know what it is, it can make you think you are losing your mind.
A signal crosser is someone who acts one way and dialogues another.An example is going to dinner with someone who tells you to eat whatever you want. Then after dinner, they say, “are you sure you don’t want desert?” when the waitress comes to the table.
This person is giving you mixed signals. They say that they want you to feel free to eat hearty, but then they kind of take it back. (continue reading post)