The Happiness Chronicles.

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Are you looking for real motivation each day?

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Daily inspiration about depression, anxiety, hope, joy, and plenty of scripture to get your demon-booty kicking groove on

This is the real deal,

My payoff? Sending your demons on the run.

(the truth will set you free).

NOTE: The pure joy of being free can not be bought, pimped, or manipulated.  This is just inspiration with zero pitch or marketing tie=-in what so ever.

I care.

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“The Affiliate Marketing Detox Letters”|”The 7 Great Lies of Affiliate Marketing”

This is the first letter in the series “Affiliate Marketing Detox”.

WARNING! If you are an affiliate marketer, and you are making a real living income off of affiliate marketing, then God Bless You! It is not my intent here to suggest that no one ever makes money as an affiliate marketer. However, many affiliate marketers are not making minimum wage at what they do.

Rather than suggest that they try harder, I am trying to get all affiliates to consider making money as an internet marketer, who sells their own product.

If you are an affiliate marketer and you like what you do, make money at what you do, or are merely convinced that affiliate marketing is THE horn of plenty, then go to a different post..

But if you think your income could be better, or are wondering if there are any non affiliate streams of income to drink from, read on!

In this first letter, we will be talking about the internal challenges affiliate marketers face in taking the risk of trying to sell their own product, rather than promoting someone else’s product.

Issue number one:Trouble Bonding with Products

Affiliate Marketers have bonding issues. They have trouble committing to one product, and instead, are like a serial dater who has many different relationships….with other people’s products. Just like playas hop around from person to person, affiliates jump from product to product.  Some may call it diversifying. Marketers who actually sell something, call this behavior a lack of focus. This fear of marketing attachment stems from a faulty belief system.

Belief: you don’t think you can sell

Why don’t you think you can sell?

Why do you think that only the people you are promoting can sell a product? You doubt yourself, affiliate. But affiliate, here’s the real truth…you CAN sell!
Have you ever sold a candy bar for your school or charity? Did you ever sell anything over the phone? Did you ever have to sell, convince or persuade someone on making a decision in your favor? That in itself displays selling skills. Affiliate, every time you write a “buy this product” page or “review”, you are demonstrating the art of persuasive selling! The truth is, most affiliates ARE salesmen…by far!

Lie number 2–You don’t think you will make any money selling your own product or service

Well, affiliate, are you making money? We all hear of door-to-door salesmen who sell someone else’s product, but we never hear of them being wildly successful. That’s because, selling for others is hard! Read this excerpt: https://howtosellanythingonline.wordpress.com/2018/01/22/affiliate-can-we-talk/

Issue number 3-You’ve bought the lie that it takes a lot of “over”head to sell your product

But the truth is, it takes investment to promote other people’s product, if you need to:

  1. Pay a fee for the “privilege” of promoting them
  2. Be a member/customer before promoting their product
  3. Buy Google ads to promote them
  4. Buy back links
  5. Build a mega site in hopes of dominating the search engines

you think that being an affiliate is easier than selling your own product

Oh, you think so? Really? Have you forgotten the hours spent promoting the best products out there…that only, oh, 1 million others were promoting?

you don’t have a product to sell

This is the biggest lie of all. Affiliate, don’t tell me that you aren’t capable of producing your own product, or selling your services. In this over saturated world of affiliate marketing, if you’ve made a dime, you are capable. Only you and other affiliates know the time and effort you’ve put into selling other people’s stuff. It’s time to sell your own.

you don’t think that your product is capable of pulling in sales.

The second biggest lie of all. Affiliate, chances are, you have exactly what it takes to STOMP the competition. It will take time. But affiliate right now, there is a product you can sell that will make you money right off the bat. Niche marketing shouldn’t mean “AFFILIATE SLAVE”. Find your OWN niche, and rake it in.

you’ve already invested so much money in affiliate marketing programs, you feel the need to “make” it work

Forget it, affiliate. Consider it the cost of an education. Most marketers have been burnt. Move on and sell your own stuff!

Why your New Year’s Resolution fails you|…Like, every year.

Tell me, reader, why is it that we make impossible New Year’s goals, that we know we will fail at? I think it’s because we get obsessed with goal setting rather than goal reaching. Goal setting is what happens when twenty people say, “So what are YOUR New Year’s resolutions?” and we think, “hmmm, what should I resolve to do” ?

But now, Goal Reaching is different; It works like this…”what do I want to accomplish by the end of this year?” That’s goal reaching.

Now, take that year-end goal, and break it down. Season by season. Month by month. Week by week. Day by day.

Now here’s the deal. If you didn’t come up with some flaky resolution that sounded good, you will take the time to plan this goal out, because it’s what you really want to accomplish (not what sounds good to everyone).

Here are some “Reach your New Year’s Resolutions”  posts from last year which really dive deep into the whole psychology of setting New Years goals that get met.

How to Get Followers

Now, I’m not talking about getting people to get behind your dream, or to get onboard your latest project.

I think you know what I mean here; you want others to follow your blog, or to “follow” you on Face Book.

But here’s the thing; people aren’t going to follow you if they don’t like what you have to say. And here’s the other thing–everyone doesn’t have to agree with you, to like what you have to say. They may find you obnoxious, or annoying as hades. Or they may find you amusing as in “check this clown out, he’s ridiculous”.  And then, wham! They click that like button.

To this day, it amazes me how many affiliate marketers follow me, even though I have all but slammed affiliate marketing. Why is that? I think it’s because, in the world of blogging and social media, people want what’s real.

Being real and passionate about what you post is the surest way to get others to follow you.

Another way is to beg people to follow you. No, it’s really true. If you slobber all over your readers and beg them to comment, like your post, or follow you, amazingly–they will! Try it and see. Then tell me if it works, I’d love to hear about it.

How to Keep Your New Year’s Resolutions

The secret to success….segmenting

If you want to get a goal done, and done right, then you need to learn the secret of breaking your goals up.

It’s not enough to break your goal up into 2 or three steps.

No, to really be successful, break those goals down into yearly, quarterly, and seasonal goals.

Here’s where most people miss it…they pick a goal like weight loss. That’s it. Come on, people, how can anyone lose weight like that? Actually, everyone. Because there is no accountability to a goal like that. “Um… yea, I think I lost some weight….my pants do feel a little bit looser”. Vague goals like that only serve to salve our conscience or set us up for failure, because for a goal to be attainable, it must be well defined.

You want your goal to be specific, attainable, and measurable.

Then, very clearly define your goal.

Break that goal down into actionable, daily and maybe even morning, afternoon, evening goals.

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